Upon the end of the 2018 season, three fixtures of the Orange County girls lacrosse community hung up their coaching hats: Aly Simons, Kate Hick, and Cressita Bowman. Each of these coaches has played a key role in developing our community’s youth; taken together, they have positively shaped the lives of hundreds of young women.
Lacrosse in Orange County is just now making its way through adolescence, and during these first fifteen years (give or take), no coach has been as dominant and successful as Bowman. More to the point, her path traces the narrative arc of OC girls lacrosse over this last decade.
A Weird Name from Texas
Late in Cressita’s senior year at the University of Lynchburg, deep into her two-year run as team captain, her coach was explaining a drill, “Now, if I pass the ball to Cressita—”
“Cressita? Wait, who’s that?” A rookie interruption.
The puzzled freshman continued: “So Tex is her last name?”
“No, it’s Bowman.”
“I thought her name was ‘Tex.’”
Cressita stepped in to alleviate the confusion.
“At my first field hockey practice when I was a freshman, my teammates were like, ‘Oh, so you’re the chick with the weird name from Texas.’ They immediately called me ‘Tex,’ and it stuck.” Indeed, for four years as a dual-sport NCAA athlete, Cressita was known to her teammates only as “Tex.” Her gear was embroidered not with “Bowman,” or “Cressita,” but with “Tex.” Fellow students, professors, and off-field friends called her “Tex.”
And there’s your central metaphor. She’s a fierce competitor. A dual-sport athlete. A two-year captain. A four-time Academic All-American. Yet no one knows her name.
A Wrist of Fate
Cressita’s athletic career began at age two, and for her first dozen years she was a pure gymnast. A wrist injury put her in a cast for most of her thirteenth year, and she couldn’t just sit around. “I’m the second of five kids, and we were always active. I’d be at the gym training for four hours, and when I got home my mom would tell me to get outside and do something. So I’d go ride bikes or run around with my neighborhood friends.” To unload her competitive energy, Cressita started running track because it was the only thing she could do with a cast. She was a short-distance bullet; gymnastics lent itself to the explosiveness of sprinting.
This was in seventh grade. When she shed the plaster in eighth, the high school coaches started inquiring. As any high school coach can attest, a natural athlete in middle school is the crude oil we seek to drill, refine, and pour into the varsity engine.
“I joined soccer. And field hockey seemed sort of cool, so I signed up for that, too. Because the track coaches knew I was a gymnast, they trained me as a pole-vaulter.” To compete on these new team sports, Cressita needed to be a distance runner, and she hated it at first. Years later, with the coach’s whistle around her neck, having overcome her distaste for running informed her approach to her players: “I lived and breathed first hand how much running can suck . . ., yet you learn to love that feeling of pushing your body past its limits.”
It wasn’t until tenth grade that Cressita even picked up a lacrosse stick. She admired the older girls on the team; and there was something novel about lacrosse. When the dust of her childhood settled, Cressita found herself sticking with field hockey and lacrosse. Her high school varsity teams went to state in both sports every year she played.
Still, anyone reading this knows that Texas at the turn of the century was no hotbed of women’s lacrosse recruiting. When seeking a college program, Cressita shopped around a bit, and eventually settled on the University of Lynchburg in Virginia, “Because they gave me some money, I liked the campus, and it was where I’d be most likely to get plenty of playing time.”
Cressita worked the midfield shift all four years. While she found the offensive end more naturally rewarding, on defense she found expression for her deep competitive instinct. “I wanted to run, I wanted to be involved in everything, I was a glutton for punishment.”
Those who know her as the Head Coach of Mater Dei might assess her career in quite the same way.
The Golden Age
One summer day in Dallas, Cressita was floating like Gatsby (minus the bullet wound) on an inflatable in her friend’s pool, doing what so many recent college grads find themselves doing.
Cressita imagined moving to California, which I can attest is the dream of many who grow up east of the Rockies. On a vacation with a friend, she had stayed at the La Jolla beach club–which, of course, represents accurately how everyone lives in the Golden State every day. Cressita and her BFF figured they would be “surfer girls from Texas.”
But as it turned out, her friend’s mom came out of the house and told the former student-athlete on a raft that the Episcopal School of Dallas was looking for a field hockey and lacrosse coach. And thus Cressita’s coaching career began. She worked as a fifth and sixth grade PE teacher and advisor at ESD, and she inherited the high school club lacrosse program.
She was 22.
“I had the absolute faith and trust from those who hired me. 100% support.” Of course, Cressita was just inexperienced enough not to understand how fortunate she was, how rare such an opportunity can be. So she just did what she’d always done and what she’s done ever since. Committed herself to the girls. Pushed the program with passion. Worked her ass off. And owned it all for two years at ESD. In only her second (and final) year there, her team took third in state.
But time came to execute the California plan.
The Path to Mater Dei
Cressita set her gaze on San Diego, but quickly learned that most high school girls lacrosse programs in the county were fairly established. She was advised to check out Orange County, which was desperate for knowledgeable coaches to develop its fledgling programs. She had a contact at St. Margaret’s who directed her to Roger Brent and Lambert Forman.
Brent and Forman were among those instrumental in the early establishment of Orange County lacrosse. Brent immediately installed Cressita as the leader of the Storm club program. As a coach at Storm, she worked with a number of girls who would ultimately raise the level of Orange County lacrosse–including an eighth-grade Riley Eggeman (who went on to score 99 goals and 40 assists in her senior year at Capistrano Valley in 2014) and a fifth-grader named Maddi Hooks (who assisted 68 goals for the 2017 championship Mater Dei team).
Cressita’s first day with Storm began inauspiciously. The players were milling about before the first whistle, and she asked Brent, “When are they going to get dressed?” He responded that they were ready to go. They were in Vans and jeans shorts, and Cressita said to her inner Toto, “I don’t think we’re in Texas anymore.” She gathered the group, told them all about cleats and athletic attire, and laid it on the line: “Listen, let’s show up next time ready to play lax.”
OC lacrosse has never been the same.
Through Storm, Cressita connected to Mission Viejo, where she coached her first OC varsity team in 2010. She worked with Head Coach Renate Schmidt, and the team went 9-9 that year–a record that doesn’t really tell the story. “We had one serious athlete [Megan Armes], who was actually a soccer player. But we had a really cool year; it was a good group of people both on and off the field. The girls really wanted to learn, and we had so much fun.” Armes recalls that Cressita “saw what was in front of her, and came in with a program and a plan. . . . She was unapologetic in the best way.”
The 2010 Diablo record captures Cressita’s brilliance in a snapshot. The team lost seven of its first eight games, including an eleven-goal loss to Trabuco Hills and an seven-goal defeat at the hands of Tesoro. But they righted the ship and won seven of their final eight regular season games, including a one-goal victory over Tesoro. Although Mission Viejo’s power ranking put them at 14th in the county, the seeding committee saw the late-season success as reason to offer the team a bid in the twelve-team playoff.
The team responded with an upset over #7 Trabuco Hills, 10-9. The Diablos would ultimately fall to Beckman–who lost to Mater Dei’s dynastic predecessor, Los Alamitos, in the 2010 OC Championship.
In the winter of 2011, Cressita had an opportunity to take on a head coaching position at Santa Margarita. It was bittersweet leaving Mission Viejo, but without a California teaching credential, she would never be able to parlay her coaching into a teaching job at a public school. In a private school, she was more likely to find a home, so she took the job and the Gold Coast club program along with it.
In the last week before she was to hit the field with the Eagles, she and two friends planned an SC-to-SC bike trip. For the uninitiated, that’s Santa Cruz to San Clemente–something in the neighborhood of 450 miles. It took weeks of planning and training, and it ended in less than five minutes when Cressita collided with a car in the second mile of the trek and was evacuated by helicopter to San Jose.
“It was a life-changing moment. I woke up to a doctor telling me that I broke my face, and that he would come back in a bit to tell me more about my broken arm. My head felt like a migraine times a million because my brain was swelling. The concussion lasted two months.”
It was January, with the spring season looming, and Cressita made it out to the Santa Margarita practice field in mid-February. On crutches. Talking out of the side of her mouth.
But she had two major assets: Katie Mahoney and Adrienne “Ade” Anderson. As the JV coach, Mahoney took the varsity team through practice reps while Cressita recovered. (Side note: Katie is the daughter of ubiquitous umpire Kevin Mahoney, whose leadership of the officials has played a huge part in the development of the girls lacrosse in OC). Ade, who was a junior in 2011, was a tremendous athlete who, according to Cressita, “had the best footwork I’d ever seen and that I’ve ever seen since.”
What Ade remembers clearly about Cressita is that “she was the coach who impacted me the most. She figured out quickly how to coach me and how to use me on the field. She also taught me all the non-lax skills, like leadership. She was the first coach who treated me as a partner and really took my opinion into account.” While Ade’s club coaches discouraged her from shooting for the Stanford stars, it was Cressita (along with Liz “LC” Connelly, see below) who believed in her and pushed her to go for it.
As for results, the proof is in the pudding: Ade was a four-year baller at Stanford, 2013-2016.
Cressita’s experience at Santa Margarita paralleled her time at Mission Viejo. She had one star athlete around whom she could build her systems, and she had a great group of young women eager to learn the sport who responded enthusiastically to a coach who brought the goods. But there were two big differences. The team did not have to go through early-season growing pains–apparently Cressita herself had absorbed a season’s worth of pain in one moment. And the Eagles made the OC championship game after a huge upset of #2 Foothill in the semis.
The Eagles would finish the season with a power ranking of #4, but officially they were the runner-up to the powerhouse Los Al, a team winning the third of its six straight OC championships. Cressita earned recognition as OC Coach of the Year in 2011, but it always haunted her a bit: “I’m really glad to have gotten the honor in 2016, because I was always suspicious that the nod in 2011 was a pity vote because of my accident.”
Santa Margarita could not offer Cressita a teaching position, but Sydney Payne’s parents (another Storm connection) were able to give her the inside track on an opening at Mater Dei that was attached to a full-time job.
This set the foundation for Orange County’s next dynasty.
Interlude: A Bit of Context
Once lacrosse was firmly established in Orange County in the late-aughts, there was really one team to beat: Los Alamitos. An obligatory nod must be given to Foothill and Beckman, who were perennially at the top of the county during this period. But the Griffins, coached by Meredith Adamacki
(2007-2011) and Liz “LC” Connelly
(2012-2013), were an absolute wrecking ball. From 2009-2014, Los Al lost only two games to OC opponents–the first of which was to Foothill in 2011 and the second of which was to Beckman in 2014, who was coached by LC as a substitute filling a temporary vacancy!
Adamacki was before my time, but I’ve heard nothing except great things about her; I was, however, fortunate enough to witness LC’s wizardry first-hand. She could take any group of players and instantly get them on board with her program; her knowledge of the game and, more importantly, her ability to communicate and convey that knowledge in a meaningful way was unparalleled by anyone in Orange County. LC ran the Team OC club, which was managed by Crista Samaras
, and the two trained a generation of players and coaches that elevated the level of lacrosse throughout the county.
Talk to any coach whose team grew to be a contender during this time, and they will tell you that their core players were involved with Team OC–or its big sister, X-TEAM. They’ll probably also tell you that they coached with LC and Team OC and that’s where they developed their own coaching chops. Although Cressita needed no brushing up on her lax IQ, she coached with Team OC, and she looks fondly on her time there as “the good old days, when OC players and coaches were together and we were building the community.”
LC left Los Al, the Griffons drifted slowly back to earth, and in 2016 Team OC disbanded. But the lingering effects of the program are still felt to this day: Players have come to recognize the value of high-level club participation; a host of competitive club teams have sprung up; and OC lacrosse has leveled out considerably. If you need evidence of this growth, look no further than our National Team, which has gone undefeated at the National Tournament each of the last two years and has earned placement in higher and higher divisions each May.
This is all a long way of making a simple point: Gone were the days when a team with one great player could ride that superstar to the championship game. As of 2014, only true teams
with a depth and breadth of talent could reach the OC pinnacle. Parity was the new norm, and to create a dynasty seemed impossible.
Of course, “impossible” is not part of Cressita’s vocabulary.
Monarch Means King . . . Eventually
You’d never guess it today, but the fact is that Cressita’s initiation at Mater Dei was an echo of exactly what she went through at Mission Viejo and Santa Margarita. There wasn’t much of a lacrosse culture, girls lacrosse was a second-tier program, maybe even a third-tier program. Still Cressita had “really great juniors and seniors–thirsty to learn, appreciative of someone who could teach them the game.”
One of the affirmations of Cressita’s talent during this time was that she took the Trinity League title in 2011 with the Eagles and in 2012-2104 with the Monarchs. Regardless of the players on the field, Cressita was consistently on top of the league. (A tip of the hat to SMCHS and Ade, who ended the Mater Dei season in 2012 with a 13-11 OT playoff victory.)
In her early years at Mater Dei, Cressita worked to build a culture that strives for excellence. She credits the school’s intense demands for pushing her out of her comfort zone and forcing her to learn what it takes to run a next-level program. Between paperwork and communication, weight and fitness training, and simply meeting the demands of the athletic director, she engaged in a ton of hard work that she was not used to–and it’s certainly nothing any non-coach witnessed or understood.
Mater Dei experienced no meteoric rise under her stewardship. It seemed a perfect match: An intensely competitive, capable, and passionate athlete-turned-coach working in a nationally recognized athletic program. Yet in her first three years as a Monarch, the team ended in the #6, #5, and #7 spot in the county. These teams were strong and these results are nothing to sneeze at, but for Cressita they were not quite what she was after.
Dave Elkins, the Head Coach at Aliso Niguel who worked closely with Cressita on Team OC, noted that she worked exceptionally hard at figuring out how to get through to each individual and communicate a team vision. “As a coach for girls, she wants the best for them–she cares. She sets a high bar for players and makes them rise to it; she makes good players great.”
The conventional wisdom for a high school coach is to give it three years to make the program your own. Accordingly, 2015 was just about the perfect time for the Mater Dei team to reach altitude. A core group of sophomores and freshman were coming up the ranks, and they would ultimately dominate the All-county and All-American lists for the next few years: Grace Houser
, Kenzie Wallevand
, Maddi Hooks
, Lauren Gonzalez
, Sydney Payne
, and Courtney Walburger.
They went 15-4 overall, 13-2 in Orange County.
Their only losses were a two-goal defeat at the hands of Los Alamitos at mid-season, and an absolute heartbreaker to Beckman in the semifinal of the OC championship tournament. That day, Beckman played one of the grittiest games I have ever witnessed–and Kelly Kallas (née Baker) deserves credit for bringing her squad back against such a young and hungry Mater Dei team. This loss stuck with the Monarchs throughout 2016, and it motivated Houser particularly, as she was yellow-carded in the final minutes of the 2015 contest.
Senior defender Alexia Hipsher
(who has an awesomely big personality) set the tone for the 2016 season. Mater Dei was no longer part of the Trinity League, which meant that identifying preseason objectives was a real challenge: For beyond winning an OC Championship, what was there to accomplish? Bowman was seeking measurable, achievable goals, and Hipsher said in front of the whole team, “Let’s win every game.” As Head Coach, despite her ultra-competitive nature, Bowmanfelt compelled to demand a more attainable goal. Hipsher countered, “Why isn’t that attainable?”
Bowman paused for a moment, turned to the team, and everyone in the room unanimously stamped this audacity with their collective seal of approval. It had been six years since Los Al had run the table, and the 2016 Mater Dei team had two fearsome San Diego powerhouses on the schedule: La Costa Canyon and Torrey Pines. But in mid-March, when the team improved to 7-0 with a two-goal win over Torrey, anything seemed possible.
Bowman knew that the only thing was “not to get psyched out–don’t think about the undefeated record.” With her typical emotionally reserved style, she encouraged her team to keep their eyes on the present and the immediate future, to take it one game at a time. Then, in the second week of April, the Monarchs took down LCC in another close, two-goal victory; a week later, in a game against LA County’s #1 Oak Park, they were on the business end of some controversial officiating, and just when everything seemed to be working against them and the undefeated season was on the line, her team dug deep and pulled away with a four-goal win.
The signature distance that Cressita had maintained to this point in the season broke down on the bus that evening, and her emotional response to her team’s resilient performance stoked a fire that burned through to the end of the season, at which point they still had not lost a game. Foothill, the reigning county champions, were the Darth Vader that Mater Dei had to face before claiming full Jedi status.
The championship game was a doozy.
Foothill owned the first half, and partway into the second they had built a 5-1 lead. With all-county goalie Hannah Upshaw defending the Knight’s keep, it seemed impossible for Mater Dei to claw back to within striking distance. Cressita called a timeout, and told her team that it was time to dig deep–that everything they had been working for during the previous 12 months was leading to this moment. Cressita recalls, “I told them that we’d overcome every other adversity we’d faced all season and we weren’t about to roll over and have it end now. It was ridiculous the way they pulled this next level out of their souls.” With a gutsy, whole-team effort–and with the demon of 2015’s disappointing exit looming over each player–the Monarchs chipped away at the lead, one goal at a time. By the time the final whistle blew, they had scored five unanswered goals to take down the OC Championship, 6-5.
With an anticlimactic win over Oak Park in the OC-LA section final, Mater Dei completed their perfect season.
As any championship coach will tell you, talent is important, but there’s so much more to winning it all than simple ability. Everyone needs to buy in, everyone needs to be on the same page, and come game time everyone must tune out every distraction and discouraging voice to focus on a singular goal. Cressita possesses the ability to convince a player like Hooks to own her role as a playmaker, to motivate a player like Wallevand to dominate, to give a player like Gonzalez a reason to run even faster than she thinks she can, and to push a player like Houser to continue striving despite having committed to a D1 program as a sophomore. And she makes sure that every role player and supporting member of the team knows her precise job in the effort.
This is what wins championships, and this is what earned Cressita OC Coach of the Year honors in 2016. True fact: With a power rating of 82.93, the 2016 Mater Dei team was 66th in the nation, which is the highest any OC team has ever been ranked at the end of a season.
The View from the Top
The 2017 and 2018 Mater Dei teams each faced the same fundamental challenge: dealing with the pressure of a perfect 2016 season. All of the core players from the 2016 returned in 2017, with the notable exception of the firebrand Hipsher, and thus expectations were unreasonably high.
To prepare her team, Cressita scheduled a series of opponents who outmatched the Monarchs: Hutchison (TN), Carondelet, Novato, California, and an improved Torrey Pines. To add to the challenge, when the team went north for their spring break, they had lost the dominant Wallevand to a knee injury. Over this week, while most girls around OC were heading out of town with family, chilling on the beach with friends, or kicking it in the AC with popcorn and Netflix, Mater Dei was taking their lumps.
Even for Cressita, perhaps especially
for Cressita, it was tough to convince her players that the pain they were suffering had value. The Monarchs maintained their spotless record in OC throughout the regular season, but lost all three games on their spring break trip. This, of course, led to all sorts of second guessing and hand-wringing on the part of players and parents–along with smiles and high-fives from the haters.
In short, it was hardly a spring “break.”
But it all came back around for the postseason, when the 2016 magic seemed to re-emerge: “The 2017 season was more of a roller-coaster, but by the playoffs, the girls were on auto-pilot.” They had been here before. They knew what they had to do. Their coach had put them through the ringer, but this had built a foundation for playoff success.
The semifinal game that year was another nail-biter, with St. Margaret’s challenging for the crown. But it would be one more year before the Monarchs would relinquish the throne. In a hotly contested, back-and-forth match replete with controversy, Mater Dei eked by the Tartans, 9-8, in a game eerily reminiscent of their own 2015 loss to Beckman. The final against Foothill was less intense, as Mater Dei earned a convincing 13-9 victory and their second consecutive OC Championship.
Foothill Head Coach, Kate Hick, has witnessed from the sidelines over a number of years the strength of the Mater Dei team under Cressita: “She’s put together a great program, and she gets a lot out of her players. The results are there–championships. I have a lot of respect.”
From here, Mater Dei graduated 75% of their offensive output and Walburger, their long-standing goalie. The naysayers came immediately out of the woodwork, questioning everything about how effectively Cressita had prepared her team for this transition. Looking back, she emphasizes that while “the players in 2016-2017 earned every second of their success, there was this myth that it’s easy, that it just happens. So for the 2018 team, there was the weight of expectations, pressure even from friends, parents, the school, and the OC lacrosse community. It was very tough for them.”
And there was a psychological factor that even Cressita hadn’t come to grips with: What do the 2018 players think about how Cressita views them
now that last year’s elite players are gone?
With all that said, Cressita credits so many players on the 2018 team for stepping into the enormous shoes of the 2016-2017 champions: “I’m super proud of that group who owned the challenge and overcame overwhelming pressure.” Objectively speaking, virtually any coach in OC prays for the kind of season that the Monarchs had in 2018: Their only OC losses were to St. Margaret’s (the current reigning champions), and virtually every other win was utterly convincing. After pulling off their second victory over Foothill in the semifinal game–this one an overtime barn-burner–Tess Keiser said to Cressita, “WE beat them.” The message was clear: Despite the departure of the dominant players of the previous years, Mater Dei was still a fearsome opponent with players such as Keiser, Payne, Peyton Smith, Gianna Danese, and Georgia Glowaki filling out the ranks.
I think it’s impossible for any of us outside of that 2018 team to understand the pressure they faced or to appreciate the astounding way they responded to the challenge. But those players felt it, and Cressita knew how to harness it and ride it to another OC Championship game.
The Legacy: “Pass It On”
Cressita’s Monarchs have spent the last four years at #1 or #2 in Orange County.
It’s difficult to overstate the magnitude of Cressita’s achievements at Mater Dei. Elkins sums it up by noting that Cressita ran a “high profile program at Mater Dei with huge expectations, she put her team up against the most competitive opponents, and she came close to an OC championship three-peat. What else is left for her to prove? She made lacrosse in OC better and more competitive.” If and if it hadn’t happened, if it weren’t part of the historical record, it would be unfathomable to think one coach could find so much success in so many different programs over the last decade.
The current OC Coach of the Year, St. Margaret’s Holly Reilly, thinks of Cressita as an astounding competitor: “There’s never going to be any mercy when you go up against her team. She teaches her players to play with their all, to play to the end. Mater Dei was never going to hand you anything–you had to earn it. There’s always a bit of nervousness or anxiety going up against her teams, which is a good thing . . . that’s why you play sports.”
Grace Houser was fortunate enough to be Cressita’s lifting partner one year, and they would talk about life as they spotted one another: “She’s been a mentor for me throughout high school, which is a crazy time for young athletes. She’s been there for me beyond lacrosse.”
If you talk to enough people about Cressita’s style, you will hear these same themes resonate. Yet she avoids the limelight, and what might seem to an outsider as standoffishness is a natural consequence of her competitive personality, her expectation of excellence, and the self-assurance lent by a steady stream of accomplishments. Who else among us has been a two-sport NCAA athlete? Who else has coached an undefeated varsity team? And how “distant” can she be when so many who know her describe her as if by reflex as so passionate an advocate–someone who always shows up, who caters to each individual’s strengths, who is a strong role model in whom young women can see themselves?
I looked over her nine years coaching varsity teams to find an overall record of 125-47. Against OC teams, her record is 94-32. In her final four years at Mater Dei, she posted a 50-4 record in OC. Both the coach and the reporter in me were curious about her coaching philosophy, and it’s shockingly simple: “I want to teach lifelong skills through sports. Sometimes these lessons are harsh, but even those teach grit and resilience. And I want to motivate players to develop physical health.” Her most cherished notes from players echo this: “Thank you for teaching me I can overcome what seems insurmountable. Thank you for teaching me to love running.” Even eight years after Cressita’s entry into OC lacrosse, Armes feels Cressita “could bring out potential in everyone. . . . She could tap into each player and get in your head in the best way. I’m really proud to have played for her and really proud to be her friend. She’s an amazing person.”
The motto of her aptly named club, Legacy, is “Pass It On,” which reflects her coaching philosophy in three words. As Cressita moves to island life on Catalina, taking on a new position as an environmental education liaison, she can rest assured that she has, indeed, passed it on. Chloe Silance will take on both the Monarch team and Cressita’s former teaching assignment; Silance played for Cressita in 2012-2013, went on to play at UCLA, and returned to assist in 2018. Janelle Williams, who also graduated in 2013 and spent her college years playing at Mercyhurst, is coming back to assist Silance. Cressita couldn’t be happier: “They played for me, and they were part of the group that put Mater Dei on the map and changed the team’s culture. Now they’re coming back. They will not be afraid to expect excellence. They won’t lower the bar.”
She couldn’t be leaving in a better situation. “It’s never easy to leave, but this is the best-case scenario . . . I love the game of lacrosse.”